Most gents ask me as to how they can save their money… The most likely answer you will get from me at the initial is be genius in the way you pick out your girls. sometimes the reason you always broke is the type of girl you choose out for yourself.
I personally have never dated women that have ever had to ask me for airtime or hair/weave money.I find it weird that some guys allow for such to happen,I find it even more weird that someone would have such a nerve to do such. But don’t get mad at me,I live in my own world with my own rules. first thing’s first, I do not get why someone would ask for something they cannot afford themselves, it throws me off totally.
I cant be the only one who’s puzzled by the fact that its always assumed that guys have money? Okay maybe there’s more economically active guys than women but with all rules of equality applied evenly we should rather be striving to advance our females so they get to the level we are at?
Having a woman who’s financially frugal and considerate is the best thing that can ever happen to you, she will never have unreasonable expectations for you and demand things that she cannot afford, and the best of it all, she will never get you broke or in debt as she knows that the money spent has to come from somewhere. I do admit that we guys sometimes play the money game to try and attract females, any guy that places his game on his wallet might be deserving of being sucked dry. The trick in filtering out any gold digger is to stay true to yourself really, there is no need to be flashy and try impress strangers on a night out. Genuine people attract other genuine people. And besides an independent women is a keeper, she will advance you and help you make value add life decisions as opposed to a selfish being that seeks for short term-ism and is always ready to leave you or get mad at you for not getting her stuff she cant afford herself.
Stay woke my nigga, you do not have to keep up with bullshit and expenses that aren’t of your making. Next time you out having fun try and play in your defined league and have standards that you adhere and keep to. Be the game-changer that has a list of filter questions… 1. What do you do? 2. You got a job? 3. Got a car? 4. Who’s paying for your drinks …. we live in a world were you get what you ask for and do not have to settle for less anymore.
#MONEYMONDAY
Kagiso Maloma
