By Rawlings Khoza
Unfortunately we still live in a world where men still cheat, well, to be honest women too but I want to share with you dear reader the reasons why MEN cheat and no I do not have the outmost experience but I do happen to be quite the observant fella. Okay let me stop beating about the bush and actually try to break it down for you:
Okay truth be told, most guys are not really not in relationships for the intimacy part of it, it’s sad but it’s the truth. Most men cheat to avoid intimacy, intimacy scares them so they distance themselves from their partners. This way they never have to fully rely on someone and oh, also to avoid getting hurt… yeah, it makes sense to them!
Now, a little twist of the truth above, some men just crave intimacy, but how does craving intimacy lead one into cheating you ask? On the flip side, some men are searching for intimacy outside their relationships. Well, over time couples tend to drift apart and there’s no communication about their lack of intimacy. Funny enough when this happens, some men think it’s easier to just cheat than talk about it.
Intimacy:
Close familiarity or friendship.
“The intimacy between a husband and wife”
You know, the libido needs a boost. You know how at first you can’t get enough of each other and all that honeymoon phase stuff? But then after a while things start to feel more comfortable which isn’t a bad thing, don’t get me wrong. Some men crave the newness and go elsewhere to find it.
This one is an obvious one, some men just want control. You know how it goes, some men just want control when they are in a relationship and cheating kind of seems like they are doing as they wish, which kind of puts the ball in their court if you will…
Some men just lack willpower, they are just plain weak. They give into sexual affair “simply because the opportunity presented itself and they weren’t strong enough to say no”. Sounds like a cop-out to me.
And yes they have gotten away with it before so it’s easier to want to give another try, yeah, crazy I know! But not every cheater is a repeat offender, but they can be- especially if they haven’t worked on figuring out what drove them into cheating in the first place or if they just don’t care about anyone but themselves
THANK ME LATER..
By Rawlings Khoza (Blog – Rowling’s Diary)
Rawlings Khoza is a young man from a small but active village of Magorho then and now Tiyani. From a young age, Rawlings has always been into literature. Rawlings only started writing his own material in the year 2011, at age 13. But the love, passion and interest for literature started from as early as age 10. He would read, memorize and recite poems from
